Social Anxiety

I recently met a nice man but he sometimes has social anxiety towards certain things which are not even important or serious stuff for me... for example, simple things like meeting my friends up for dinner...  I think he will faint if it's to meet Mr Ng one day... I just wonder if the nervous breakdown is necessary sometimes.

Other than that he is a really nice person who treats me well (not like a princess though :P) and did a lot for me. Well, there's nobody perfect in this world. Just people that you feel comfortable with and let me just keep reminding myself...

Ing Graduated

And so, it's finally no more students at home.. When I was a kid, dad actually predicted he will be in a good life and retire by 50 years old.. However, all his kids have BIG dreams and mostly finished A Level/ Diplomas/ Certificates/ Bachelors... (BTW there are 7 of us!)

I hope he can relax more now since Ing has graduated and started her career in a bank in Kuala Lumpur and guess what? Dad is 70 years old now... 20 years later than his prediction. We should let him relax more and enjoy more... I'm heading to KL with him during Chinese New Year to meet up with the families and we'll be spending few days in Miri end of April as well. Just the two of us since no one else in Kuching besides Corina who is supposed to be too busy to drop by and say HI all the time as claimed.

.:Fish Lip:.

Siao Cabos

It was a sisters night out. Since we've never really done anything together apart from family thing or at home being:-

1) My kitchen's slaves

2) Bathing the pet assistants

3) Computer Engineers

4) Milo Baristas

5) Maggie Mee Chefs

and the list goes on and on and on....

 We decided to go Karaoke together since the two sis were in town and Lil sis suggested Kbox at tHe Spring and so we went there...

 .:Me - Very serious standing on the sofa LOL :.

.:Ping:.

.:Ing standing on the sofa too:.

.:The RM3.00 compulsory snack (actual price, 40cents):.

.:Aircond was freezing cold and they supplied us with blanket as thin as one of those cloth used in hair saloon:.

We sang for a damn 2 hours and I actually fell asleep on the last half an hour... I don't know why.. maybe coz I didn't drink any alcohol while singing plus my sisters voice made me sleepy.. HA HA

Well for the record, dad is very happy. He said 'This is what sisters should do.. bonding with each other, doing something together, it's a good thing. no matter what you girls are still sisters' 

Dad didn't lived in a happy childhood due to family financial difficulties and I guess all the siblings were struggling and learnt how to be selfish in order to live their life and he had been in the situation where he seen his sisters (my aunties) fighting with each other, making each others life miserable, jealousy over marriage etc etc.. lotsa immature events during the old days... 

I saw a few Ng family's drama when I was a kid as well but it's true they were not close with each other at all and kinda reminds me of office politics hehe. Oh well, I better saddap now or everyone will kill me.

Step 2 - Slimming

I wouldn't want to look FAT when I finally managed to live a luxury life so I signed up for the slimming programme which offers reasonable price and I just had my first session... The slimming wrap was very very good. The feeling is like in a sauna but you can still breath pretty well coz the heat is only focusing on your body and not up to your head.

After the 1 hour session and multiple explanation on the product and how I need it to bust up the slimming process, I am given a boring diet plan which is: -

Breakfast

Skimmed Milk / Low Fat Milk/ Soya Bean without sugar

Coffee or Tea (with artificial sweetener)

Yogurt without fruits

Eggs (hard boiled, half boiled, scrambled)

Omelette with Tomato/ Mushroom/ Ham

Sausages/ Ham (boiled, baked)

Salad (tomato, lettuce, tuna, bolied egg, lemon juice, olive oil)

Lunch

All types of vegetables (except carrot, corn, onion and pumpkin)

Soya Products / Tau Fu / Yong Tau Fu (without sweet sauce)

Fish / Tuna in water / Shashimi / Fish Ball

Seafoods (crab, lobster, squid, oyster)*

Lean Meat eg. chicken without skin (grilled, baked, roasted, poached, steamed)

Dinner

Vegetables Soup / Tom Yam Soup / Tomato Soup / Mushroom Soup (not creamy)

All Types of vegetables (except carrot, corn, onion and pumpkin)

Soya Products / Tau Fu

Fish / Tuna in water / Shashimi / Fish Ball

Eggs (hard boiled, half boiled, scrambled)

WORST THING is I have to drink 2 - 3 litres of plain water per day =/ boringnya....

Oh well, I am very motivated to lose more weight so I'll be discipline.. For my plan to a LUXURIOUS LIFE! :D

Step 1 - Bank Account

After all these year, I finally open a Maybank Account today and proud of it. 

This is my first step for the 5 year's plan to a Luxurious Life!

.:My New ATM / Debit Card:.

Career Plan

My plan is simple.. to stop doing what I am doing by the time I am 32 to re-start off with the things that I love to do with a bigger and better scale...

It's a plan though and plan doesn't always work accordingly but at least that's my vision for now until 2015 and I am on a mission.. my mission is simple... which is To Work On My Vision!

Something for me to look forward to... All I have to do is to cut down on unessaccery spending and start my own *Huge Piggy Bank*

Why? Because I LOVE LUXURIOUS LIFE and it felt better if I create the luxury for myself. :D

October is a good Holiday Month

I just finished with all the crazy schedule and finally get to breath a little... Now I realized that October is a good month for me to chill a little.. So next time if I am planning on holiday, October will be the month..

My next holiday will be in February during the Chinese New Year for a family trip to the West Malaysia again =_= and Bali in April with Suparsoon and friends.. perhaps I should go somewhere else in Oct... hmm...

Who moved my Rooster??!!

Life has been busy and it has always been... hehehe


I just realized that the Feng Shui Rooster in my office has changed it's direction facing in.. instead of facing out.. no wonder I have been feeling all stressed out and situation has not been that encouraging I may say. Was even thinking if I should be moving some furnitures around coz I felt kinda suffocated. I guess I am just very superstitious lo...


But anyway, I have turned it back and hope that everything goes back to normal.

Was working on a Bridal Fair last weekend and permed my hair as well... Not really excited in the bridal fair though coz I'm not thinking of getting married anytime soon anyway.

.:Bridal Fair Backdrop:.

.:My new hair in progress - Digital perm by Johnny:.

.:I'm lovin it:.